Well after getting home from our big grocery shopping on Wednesday my husband looked at the phone, and told me that my mum had called. I was all like yeah I will call her back after having lunch, it's always like this after getting home from vacation, she calls all the time to tell me different things that has happened during our vacation.
So I had my lunch and called her back, well this thing hadn't happened during our vacation, well it might have, but it hadn't been official until Wednesday. My brother was home, which I found weird since his vacation was over, but it turned out that him and his girlfriend had broken up, and their wedding is/was just 5 weeks away!
To say the least I was shocked... I hadn't seen this coming, neither had my parents or anyone else for that matter. I don't know exactly what happened, I've talked to my brother a few times since Wednesday, but I have decided I don't want to ask too many question, I'm just here to listen, but I for sure would like to know WHAT REALLY HAPPENED! I guess in time I will know, but for now I can just wonder.
We are trying to look on the bright side, so we are saying it's better they break up now, instead of 5 weeks after the wedding. Now they just need to get everything sorted out, like selling the house, finding a place for their dog (none of them will be able to keep it, since they both will be living in apartments) and getting everything cancelled for the wedding.
I guess you never know what the day brings until it's over!
Wow - that is crazy! It's definitely a good thing it happened now and not after they were married. Although it's hard to get everything sorted out, it's much more difficult getting legal things sorted out. Good luck to him and I hope he recovers soon!
ReplyDeleteAww! I hope your brother is ok! But you're right - better now than after the wedding!
ReplyDeleteoh that's really rough! yes, definitely better now than after they get married, but i'm sure it will still feel like a divorce even though they hadn't tied the knot yet. warm thoughts to you and your family!
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