Time for another Wedding Wednesday post, today I'm going to write about my thoughts of marriage, the hard parts and the easy parts.
To me married life isn't much different from before. People asked me "how is it to be married" well let's see... the toiletseat is still up, and I'm still not complaining about it, life is just too short for that... besides I probably complain about a lot of other stuff, just not the toiletseat:)
Our life didn't change because we got married, and honestly if people expect their relationship to change because they get married... well then you probably should marry someone else! In our case we had lived together for 7 years before getting married, and I think that was when the big "change" happend... we had to get used to sharing our space.
Honestly I don't have any big thoughts about marriage, so I'm not going to pretend to be some kind of therapist giving out advice. Though I do believe that it takes a bit of comprimising from both sides to make a marriage work, but isn't it like that in all kinds of relationships?
I guess that's it, a bit boring post, but it will have to do:) Have a great week everyone.
i totally agree, moving in together and working out all of those differences in lifestyle are the most challenging parts of a marriage. i think for those who live together long before they get married like you guys did, have a much easier time with the commitment part when it comes.
ReplyDeleteI totally agree with this post! I am a firm believer in choosing battles. Life is too short to complain about the little things! Hope you are doing well, Connie!
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